Make Eye Contact

Those who are fond of any informal sex encounters are knowledgeable about flirting, for flirting is the prelude to casual sex. Based on my observations and experiences, homosexuals (particularly bisexuals and discreet gays) are experts on this pursuit, thus the promiscuity among gay guys. However, there are desperate ‘flirters’ who tend to ignore the common sex rules just to get a score. Unfortunately, their desperation will only take them nowhere and will leave them empty-handed at the end of the day.

Here are the basic rules of flirting effectively:

Make Eye Contact. Whether you are in a bus, walking on the street, in a friend’s birthday bash, inside the church (bad etiquette) or any other place where you encounter your prospect, the best way to get his attention is by looking at his eyes. The first glance has to be very brief, as long as he caught you looking at him. Give out a smile and look away. You can try this thrice at the most, with longer gazes in the two remainders. Don’t attempt to do this over and over again unless you intend to make your prospect believe that you’re a former boarder of a mental hospital. FURTHER TIP: Don’t STARE like you want to stab him to death.

Strike a Pose. Now that you have just given him a clue, you can try making gestures like biting your lips, rubbing the back of your neck, biting your nails, etc. Your aim is to stimulate his brain to create a clearer picture of what you are trying to imply. This way, you'll get more of his attention, he will be distracted and will think of nothing but you. FURTHER TIP: Act elegantly, NEVER exaggerate.

See Part 2 and Part 3.