Wednesday, June 13, 2007
Make Eye Contact
Here are the basic rules of flirting effectively:
Make Eye Contact. Whether you are in a bus, walking on the street, in a friend’s birthday bash, inside the church (bad etiquette) or any other place where you encounter your prospect, the best way to get his attention is by looking at his eyes. The first glance has to be very brief, as long as he caught you looking at him. Give out a smile and look away. You can try this thrice at the most, with longer gazes in the two remainders. Don’t attempt to do this over and over again unless you intend to make your prospect believe that you’re a former boarder of a mental hospital. FURTHER TIP: Don’t STARE like you want to stab him to death.
Strike a Pose. Now that you have just given him a clue, you can try making gestures like biting your lips, rubbing the back of your neck, biting your nails, etc. Your aim is to stimulate his brain to create a clearer picture of what you are trying to imply. This way, you'll get more of his attention, he will be distracted and will think of nothing but you. FURTHER TIP: Act elegantly, NEVER exaggerate.
See Part 2 and Part 3.